“There is a child in everyone of us who is still a trick-or-treater looking for a brightly-lit front porch.”

–Robert Brault

 

Since today’s Halloween, I couldn’t resist writing a post on this most hallowed of secular celebrations.

If “Scrooge” is the term for someone who doesn’t like Christmas, and that person’s response is, “Bah, Humbug,” what are the words for someone who doesn’t like Halloween? “Screech” and “Boo, Humbug?”

If so, full disclosure–I’m a Screech. After thirty-five years of handling post-Halloween tummy aches and nightmares, I’d had enough. In what world did it make sense to have skeletons, ghosts, tombstones, witches, and vampires hanging around in our yards or on our front porches, or risk having a child’s candy laced by some perverted stranger?

Don’t give up on me, you lovers of Halloween. Keep reading, please!

How did Halloween start? It originated as a Celtic, pagan celebration acknowledging the end-of-summer harvest. People donned costumes to ward off ghosts. I suppose they were exhausted and just not thinking straight!

In the 700s A.D., Pope Gregory III, affectionately known as Pope Trey, designated November 1 as what would become known as All Saints Day. The evening before was referred to as All Hallows Eve, later simplified to Halloween. So, oddly enough, the very secular Halloween and the very religious All Saints Day became inextricably linked. Weird, huh?

Okay, enough back story. Returning to my issues with Halloween, strange how a grandchild can change everything. A few years ago, at my granddaughter’s urging, I consented to host a trunk at our church’s Trunk or Treat. How could I resist a chance to do something with her, right? At Trunk or Treat, people decorate their car trunks, don silly costumes, and have baskets of candy for the church’s preschool children, alumni, and siblings. And make the rounds they do–over and over!

In other words, it’s adults acting like kids and kids acting like, well, kids. Turns out, it was tremendous fun!

And, to show you God has a providential sense of humor, I landed on the committee that oversees Trunk or Treat. We just held this year’s event the end of last week. It was a blast to see the joy on the faces of those costumed kids filling their pumpkins, baskets, or bags with candy. While some were shy and clung to their parents, others came at us with both hands!

More importantly, to set up an event that shows our children how much we care about them is, to tweak a phrase, very “low-hanging candy.” After all, believers are called to honor, look after, and even become as children. Jesus said, “I tell you the truth (and He always did!), unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the Kingdom of Heaven (Matthew 18:3 NIV).”

I guess that means Trunk or Treat is one way of answering Jesus’ call. And there you have it: My best attempt to imitate good ole Pope Trey and somehow tie Halloween and religion together!

Broadening this to life’s greater picture, sometimes we have to drop our preconceived notions and be open to change. Like they told Mikey, “Try it; you might like it.” Be forewarned, if you’re not careful, finding joy in something you previously doubted or even snickered at might just enrich your life.

Changing our opinion about something doesn’t mean we lack conviction or we’re easily influenced; rather, it suggests we’re using our brains and opening our lives to new adventures … even in a church parking lot.

Now, you might say going from how Trunk or Treat changed my view of Halloween to a wider concept of life experiences is a bit of a stretch.

But I would say for adults to put aside their grownup pretensions, even if it’s just for one night of the year, and act like a kid, all to bring joy to children, is magical.

Then, you might say that a bunch of adults dressing up in silly costumes, handing out candy to kids, and relishing their smiles and happiness is just plain goofy.

While you might be right, I say, “Boo, humbug!”

Anyway, have a happy and safe Halloween … and may the moon shine brightly on you, may your ghosts be friendly, and may all your skeletons remain in the closet!

15 Comments

  1. Lissa Archer October 31, 2023 at 11:30 am - Reply

    Great blog, Tim! We all need to stay in touch with our “inner child”!

    Happy All Hallows Eve (Halloween)!
    👻🎃🤡👽🧛‍♀️🦹‍♀️🧙‍♀️

  2. Joy Ankeney October 31, 2023 at 11:53 am - Reply

    Happy Halloween! 🎃🎃🎃

  3. Jeanne Hammons October 31, 2023 at 2:10 pm - Reply

    Love the joy I read in this!

  4. Alma Jo Langston October 31, 2023 at 3:33 pm - Reply

    Great message, Tim, encouraging us to let “our child” out to play! I have my Wendy’s Jr. Frosty coupons by the front door this year for the friendly ghosts that appear out of the shadows! You can never be too sure!

  5. Scott Pridemore October 31, 2023 at 9:57 pm - Reply

    Fantastic post Dr. E!
    The older I get the more I realize how important it is to be open and curious… just like kids. Happy Halloween!!! 🎃🎃

    • teichenbrenner November 1, 2023 at 1:45 pm - Reply

      Thanks, Scott! If indeed age is the determinant, I must be extremely open and curious!

  6. Jan Rosser November 1, 2023 at 1:02 pm - Reply

    You should have seen the costumes here at the home. The employees and residents tried to outdo each other and it was very entertaining. A good time was had by all. Even the ghosts and witches danced together!
    Thank you for another good lesson for all ages.

    • teichenbrenner November 1, 2023 at 1:46 pm - Reply

      Ha! I can only imagine … but I’m sure you went as an angel, right?

  7. Denise wilson November 1, 2023 at 9:48 pm - Reply

    After my children outgrew trick or treat I also lost interest. Many years I enjoyed dressing up in crazy costumes you may remember, Dr. E. in the office crazy hula dancer. Now I also participate in trunk or treat and find it very rewarding spending Halloween at church. Thank you for encouraging words.

  8. Kathy November 1, 2023 at 11:31 pm - Reply

    For years I was one of those who kept all the lights off on Halloween. This year I participated in same Trunk or Treat described here. I even went all out with a costume. I have to say it was fun! I even donned my costume again at the home, face paint and all. I didn’t win any prizes but a lot of people looked twice trying to figure out who I was. Who would have thought that at this age I’d be putting on a costume and handing out candy. Perhaps you are right Tim. It’s all about the sweet children

  9. Debra Ankeney November 5, 2023 at 2:24 am - Reply

    Great message Tim!
    We all should reach out of our comfort zone and try something different or something you don’t understand the “why” of! These days we need a little more fun and excitement in our lives….enjoy what you can where you can and make the best of every situation! Trick or Treat!🎃

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“There is a child in everyone of us who is still a trick-or-treater looking for a brightly-lit front porch.”

–Robert Brault

 

Since today’s Halloween, I couldn’t resist writing a post on this most hallowed of secular celebrations.

If “Scrooge” is the term for someone who doesn’t like Christmas, and that person’s response is, “Bah, Humbug,” what are the words for someone who doesn’t like Halloween? “Screech” and “Boo, Humbug?”

If so, full disclosure–I’m a Screech. After thirty-five years of handling post-Halloween tummy aches and nightmares, I’d had enough. In what world did it make sense to have skeletons, ghosts, tombstones, witches, and vampires hanging around in our yards or on our front porches, or risk having a child’s candy laced by some perverted stranger?

Don’t give up on me, you lovers of Halloween. Keep reading, please!

How did Halloween start? It originated as a Celtic, pagan celebration acknowledging the end-of-summer harvest. People donned costumes to ward off ghosts. I suppose they were exhausted and just not thinking straight!

In the 700s A.D., Pope Gregory III, affectionately known as Pope Trey, designated November 1 as what would become known as All Saints Day. The evening before was referred to as All Hallows Eve, later simplified to Halloween. So, oddly enough, the very secular Halloween and the very religious All Saints Day became inextricably linked. Weird, huh?

Okay, enough back story. Returning to my issues with Halloween, strange how a grandchild can change everything. A few years ago, at my granddaughter’s urging, I consented to host a trunk at our church’s Trunk or Treat. How could I resist a chance to do something with her, right? At Trunk or Treat, people decorate their car trunks, don silly costumes, and have baskets of candy for the church’s preschool children, alumni, and siblings. And make the rounds they do–over and over!

In other words, it’s adults acting like kids and kids acting like, well, kids. Turns out, it was tremendous fun!

And, to show you God has a providential sense of humor, I landed on the committee that oversees Trunk or Treat. We just held this year’s event the end of last week. It was a blast to see the joy on the faces of those costumed kids filling their pumpkins, baskets, or bags with candy. While some were shy and clung to their parents, others came at us with both hands!

More importantly, to set up an event that shows our children how much we care about them is, to tweak a phrase, very “low-hanging candy.” After all, believers are called to honor, look after, and even become as children. Jesus said, “I tell you the truth (and He always did!), unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the Kingdom of Heaven (Matthew 18:3 NIV).”

I guess that means Trunk or Treat is one way of answering Jesus’ call. And there you have it: My best attempt to imitate good ole Pope Trey and somehow tie Halloween and religion together!

Broadening this to life’s greater picture, sometimes we have to drop our preconceived notions and be open to change. Like they told Mikey, “Try it; you might like it.” Be forewarned, if you’re not careful, finding joy in something you previously doubted or even snickered at might just enrich your life.

Changing our opinion about something doesn’t mean we lack conviction or we’re easily influenced; rather, it suggests we’re using our brains and opening our lives to new adventures … even in a church parking lot.

Now, you might say going from how Trunk or Treat changed my view of Halloween to a wider concept of life experiences is a bit of a stretch.

But I would say for adults to put aside their grownup pretensions, even if it’s just for one night of the year, and act like a kid, all to bring joy to children, is magical.

Then, you might say that a bunch of adults dressing up in silly costumes, handing out candy to kids, and relishing their smiles and happiness is just plain goofy.

While you might be right, I say, “Boo, humbug!”

Anyway, have a happy and safe Halloween … and may the moon shine brightly on you, may your ghosts be friendly, and may all your skeletons remain in the closet!

15 Comments

  1. Lissa Archer October 31, 2023 at 11:30 am - Reply

    Great blog, Tim! We all need to stay in touch with our “inner child”!

    Happy All Hallows Eve (Halloween)!
    👻🎃🤡👽🧛‍♀️🦹‍♀️🧙‍♀️

  2. Joy Ankeney October 31, 2023 at 11:53 am - Reply

    Happy Halloween! 🎃🎃🎃

  3. Jeanne Hammons October 31, 2023 at 2:10 pm - Reply

    Love the joy I read in this!

  4. Alma Jo Langston October 31, 2023 at 3:33 pm - Reply

    Great message, Tim, encouraging us to let “our child” out to play! I have my Wendy’s Jr. Frosty coupons by the front door this year for the friendly ghosts that appear out of the shadows! You can never be too sure!

  5. Scott Pridemore October 31, 2023 at 9:57 pm - Reply

    Fantastic post Dr. E!
    The older I get the more I realize how important it is to be open and curious… just like kids. Happy Halloween!!! 🎃🎃

    • teichenbrenner November 1, 2023 at 1:45 pm - Reply

      Thanks, Scott! If indeed age is the determinant, I must be extremely open and curious!

  6. Jan Rosser November 1, 2023 at 1:02 pm - Reply

    You should have seen the costumes here at the home. The employees and residents tried to outdo each other and it was very entertaining. A good time was had by all. Even the ghosts and witches danced together!
    Thank you for another good lesson for all ages.

    • teichenbrenner November 1, 2023 at 1:46 pm - Reply

      Ha! I can only imagine … but I’m sure you went as an angel, right?

  7. Denise wilson November 1, 2023 at 9:48 pm - Reply

    After my children outgrew trick or treat I also lost interest. Many years I enjoyed dressing up in crazy costumes you may remember, Dr. E. in the office crazy hula dancer. Now I also participate in trunk or treat and find it very rewarding spending Halloween at church. Thank you for encouraging words.

  8. Kathy November 1, 2023 at 11:31 pm - Reply

    For years I was one of those who kept all the lights off on Halloween. This year I participated in same Trunk or Treat described here. I even went all out with a costume. I have to say it was fun! I even donned my costume again at the home, face paint and all. I didn’t win any prizes but a lot of people looked twice trying to figure out who I was. Who would have thought that at this age I’d be putting on a costume and handing out candy. Perhaps you are right Tim. It’s all about the sweet children

  9. Debra Ankeney November 5, 2023 at 2:24 am - Reply

    Great message Tim!
    We all should reach out of our comfort zone and try something different or something you don’t understand the “why” of! These days we need a little more fun and excitement in our lives….enjoy what you can where you can and make the best of every situation! Trick or Treat!🎃

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