“Before you get a dog, you can’t quite imagine what living with one might be like; afterward, you can’t imagine living any other way.”
–Caroline Knapp (American writer)
The other day, my wife and I came upon a friend of ours. She was walking her dog, who was limping noticeably. We knew the dog had sustained an injury, but when we asked if the injury was improving, she told us the dog would have to have a cranial cruciate ligament repair, the canine version of a human anterior cruciate ligament repair. When she told us the estimated surgery cost (thousands!), my immediate response was, “But what choice do you have?”
Indeed. What choice do we have when our dog–I’m going with dog, but you can substitute cat, horse, pot-bellied pig, gerbil, or whatever–is in need of medication or surgery that will be curative? When it comes to our pets, we’ve grown accustomed to the notion of surgery for injuries and medications for maladies like diabetes or adrenal insufficiency. Not for selfish prolongation of life, mind you, but for restoration of near-normal function.
Another case in point comes to mind. A now-ordained Haitian minister tells a story of when he first came to our country for post-graduate study. One day, his sponsoring host told him she was taking her dog to the vet to have an eye infection evaluated and treated. The young man broke down and cried. He explained that his thoughts went to his Haitian countrymen, many of whom have no healthcare for themselves, much less for their pets.
Is there anything wrong with our devotion to our dogs and our willingness to provide them with the best of healthcare? Of course not. We bring them into our lives and they become an integral part of our families … so much so that we often wonder how we “did life” without them.
Just go on social media sites and read tear-jerking entries devoted to a recently-deceased dog. People are heartbroken, and they spill their emotions onto the pages of their posts.
In the same way, we know when our dog no longer has that zest for life, that gleam in her eye, or that pep in his step. While I’m not in favor of human euthanasia, in my experience, there’s something very humane and decent about ending our dogs’ lives when the joy in their eyes is gone.
Our pets depend on us to make appropriate decisions for them, and after they’ve given so much to us, the least we can do is to end their lives painlessly and humanely when that time comes.
Rather than focusing on the sadness of the loss, better in my opinion to focus on the years of happiness and comfort we provided for them, and how they repaid us in spades.
Yes, there’s a tremendous disparity between the quality of our lives, and those of our pets, compared to what people experience elsewhere, notably in third-world countries. While it’s easy to feel guilty about that fact, it’s better, I think, to thank God for our bountiful blessings, including the furry creatures He brings into our lives. My best guess is He expects us to love and care for them, and always do the right thing for them. To do so speaks to our humanity.
One last thought: If we believe Heaven is the perfect place to spend eternity, doesn’t it stand to reason that we’ll do so in the company of all those pets that went before us?
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“Before you get a dog, you can’t quite imagine what living with one might be like; afterward, you can’t imagine living any other way.”
–Caroline Knapp (American writer)
The other day, my wife and I came upon a friend of ours. She was walking her dog, who was limping noticeably. We knew the dog had sustained an injury, but when we asked if the injury was improving, she told us the dog would have to have a cranial cruciate ligament repair, the canine version of a human anterior cruciate ligament repair. When she told us the estimated surgery cost (thousands!), my immediate response was, “But what choice do you have?”
Indeed. What choice do we have when our dog–I’m going with dog, but you can substitute cat, horse, pot-bellied pig, gerbil, or whatever–is in need of medication or surgery that will be curative? When it comes to our pets, we’ve grown accustomed to the notion of surgery for injuries and medications for maladies like diabetes or adrenal insufficiency. Not for selfish prolongation of life, mind you, but for restoration of near-normal function.
Another case in point comes to mind. A now-ordained Haitian minister tells a story of when he first came to our country for post-graduate study. One day, his sponsoring host told him she was taking her dog to the vet to have an eye infection evaluated and treated. The young man broke down and cried. He explained that his thoughts went to his Haitian countrymen, many of whom have no healthcare for themselves, much less for their pets.
Is there anything wrong with our devotion to our dogs and our willingness to provide them with the best of healthcare? Of course not. We bring them into our lives and they become an integral part of our families … so much so that we often wonder how we “did life” without them.
Just go on social media sites and read tear-jerking entries devoted to a recently-deceased dog. People are heartbroken, and they spill their emotions onto the pages of their posts.
In the same way, we know when our dog no longer has that zest for life, that gleam in her eye, or that pep in his step. While I’m not in favor of human euthanasia, in my experience, there’s something very humane and decent about ending our dogs’ lives when the joy in their eyes is gone.
Our pets depend on us to make appropriate decisions for them, and after they’ve given so much to us, the least we can do is to end their lives painlessly and humanely when that time comes.
Rather than focusing on the sadness of the loss, better in my opinion to focus on the years of happiness and comfort we provided for them, and how they repaid us in spades.
Yes, there’s a tremendous disparity between the quality of our lives, and those of our pets, compared to what people experience elsewhere, notably in third-world countries. While it’s easy to feel guilty about that fact, it’s better, I think, to thank God for our bountiful blessings, including the furry creatures He brings into our lives. My best guess is He expects us to love and care for them, and always do the right thing for them. To do so speaks to our humanity.
One last thought: If we believe Heaven is the perfect place to spend eternity, doesn’t it stand to reason that we’ll do so in the company of all those pets that went before us?
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You spoke to my heart in this blog…I feel so strongly of providing the best care of my sweet dog. But I also feel strongly about not letting our pets suffer when there is no hope for their future- it is showing our love for them that we give them peace and comfort . They are your constant companions and provide such joy and fun for us. We are so blessed to be in a world where we can provide for their care and comfort.
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Tim, I agree completely that we should care for our pets to help them live full and complete lives–they are our responsibility. I also support assuring they do not suffer when their quality of life is gone. You also point out that many other countries do not have the blessings we do when it comes to health care. Perhaps we are being called to do what we can to support the efforts of many who go to other countries to offer health care to those in need. Thank you for your message.
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“God will prepare everything for our perfect happiness in heaven, and if it takes my dog being there, I believe
he’ll be there.”
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I also agree with making humane decisions at the end of our faithful friend’s life. As hard as it is to do, sometimes when their quality of life is all but gone, we can make the decision to end the suffering for them and hold them as they enter their eternal rest.
Yes, there is a period of grief but I choose to focus on the wonderful blessing I had for many years.“Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.” Alfred Lord Tennyson
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Thank you Tim for this timely message .
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The only time I ever saw my dad cry was when I took his dog Annie to be put to sleep. She had suffered from seizures for too long and it was time. Annie loved my dad as much as Daddy loved her. They had shared years together and brought joy to our family. What a blessing that God has given us animals to love and enjoy.
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Amen! Our fur babies are truly members of our families. They love unconditionally, and bring us such comfort and companionship. We have so much to be thankful for in our time spent with these furry family members. Beautiful post, Tim.
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Jim and I having not had children…we had 7 beautiful fur babies to love and cherish! We did all we could to keep them happy and healthy. They were our world and we were theirs! As each one got older and came near to the end of their lives we always made the decision based on the level of quality left for them. We were with each one of them at the end. We would never been able to forgive ourselves if not. As each passed we grieved greatly..but knew in our hearts there would always be another.
We now have a beautiful almost 4 year old Lab named Harper and she is now our world! At our age people think we are crazy!
But..nothing says the loss of one can’t be a tribute of love to have another!🐾
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I had to put down my beloved dog just a few months ago. I would have spent any amount of money if I could have made her whole again, and I tried but alas, it could not be done. I believe she is waiting for me somewhere and will join me in God’s Heaven when my time comes. Dog is God spelled backwards
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You spoke to my heart in this blog…I feel so strongly of providing the best care of my sweet dog. But I also feel strongly about not letting our pets suffer when there is no hope for their future- it is showing our love for them that we give them peace and comfort . They are your constant companions and provide such joy and fun for us. We are so blessed to be in a world where we can provide for their care and comfort.
I agree, Pam. And, we do love our “Gracies,” right?
Whoa!
I know: You’re headed to the shelter today to adopt a dog! Finally!!
Tim, I agree completely that we should care for our pets to help them live full and complete lives–they are our responsibility. I also support assuring they do not suffer when their quality of life is gone. You also point out that many other countries do not have the blessings we do when it comes to health care. Perhaps we are being called to do what we can to support the efforts of many who go to other countries to offer health care to those in need. Thank you for your message.
Great point, Katherine. Thank you!
“God will prepare everything for our perfect happiness in heaven, and if it takes my dog being there, I believe
he’ll be there.”
Billy Graham
What better authority than Rev. Graham, right?
Good to hear from you, Allison!
I also agree with making humane decisions at the end of our faithful friend’s life. As hard as it is to do, sometimes when their quality of life is all but gone, we can make the decision to end the suffering for them and hold them as they enter their eternal rest.
Yes, there is a period of grief but I choose to focus on the wonderful blessing I had for many years.
“Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.” Alfred Lord Tennyson
Right??
I couldn’t agree more, Donna. Thanks!
Thank you Tim for this timely message .
You are welcome, and congrats on your new furry friend!
The only time I ever saw my dad cry was when I took his dog Annie to be put to sleep. She had suffered from seizures for too long and it was time. Annie loved my dad as much as Daddy loved her. They had shared years together and brought joy to our family. What a blessing that God has given us animals to love and enjoy.
Thank you for your message. It brought back sweet memories.
That is a sweet memory, Jan. Thanks for sharing it with us.
Amen! Our fur babies are truly members of our families. They love unconditionally, and bring us such comfort and companionship. We have so much to be thankful for in our time spent with these furry family members. Beautiful post, Tim.
Thank you, Lissa.
Jim and I having not had children…we had 7 beautiful fur babies to love and cherish! We did all we could to keep them happy and healthy. They were our world and we were theirs! As each one got older and came near to the end of their lives we always made the decision based on the level of quality left for them. We were with each one of them at the end. We would never been able to forgive ourselves if not. As each passed we grieved greatly..but knew in our hearts there would always be another.
We now have a beautiful almost 4 year old Lab named Harper and she is now our world! At our age people think we are crazy!
But..nothing says the loss of one can’t be a tribute of love to have another!🐾
Thanks for posting this Tim!
Well said, Debbie! Thanks!
I had to put down my beloved dog just a few months ago. I would have spent any amount of money if I could have made her whole again, and I tried but alas, it could not be done. I believe she is waiting for me somewhere and will join me in God’s Heaven when my time comes. Dog is God spelled backwards
If heaven is perfect, our dogs will be there with us!