“The nobility of England, my Lord, would have snored through the Sermon on the Mount, but you’ll labor like scholars over a bulldog’s pedigree.”
–Sir Thomas More (A Man for All Seasons)
Maybe you’ve experienced the recent unseasonably cool weather we’ve enjoyed in the greater Charlotte area. It got me thinking about the upcoming fall season. But I get it. I’ve been in Charlotte for forty-six years, and I know for a fact we’ve got a lot more summer to endure. Still, college football’s on the horizon!
Aren’t seasons great? We look forward to a new season–even winter, probably because of the holidays in November and December. Then, when we’re deep into a season, we often tire of it and wish it away, hoping for the next one. Seasons afford us a change, a new start–much like when January 1 rolls around: do-overs, resolutions, changes, plans.
Isn’t that a bit like life itself? There are seasons in our lives. Our years of education, ending with high school or college/post-graduate study, when we’re ready to move on and enter the work force; our years of work, and after so many years or decades, we anticipate the joys and freedom of retirement; then, upon reaching retirement, sadly, some folks look back and long for those days at work, when what we did helped to define who we were.
Although it’s healthier to be at peace with where we are, sometimes we never seem content with our current station in life. Or, as Sir Thomas More implied when he responded to The Duke of Norfolk, we worry about the inconsequential and ignore the important.
Ecclesiastes 3:1 states, “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven… (NIV).” I believe the author–perhaps the wise King Solomon–was telling us there is a time, place, and season for every situation in which we find ourselves.
Our job is to find contentment in our current season, rather than wish away where we are now so we can move on to the next, “sure-to-be-better” thing. Don’t we have to be careful not to wish our lives away?
So, how do we find contentment? Maybe through the satisfaction of doing an honest day’s work; or by the knowledge that a small, random act of kindness made a difference in someone’s life; or in the company of our close friends and family, and the pleasure such company confers on us.
A familiar phrase in the Old Testament is, “Be still and know that I am God (Psalm 46:10 NIV).” Can we quiet ourselves in the chaos of this world, reflect on the knowledge that we are in God’s hands, and understand his plans are vast and unknown to us? There’s an old saying: “We make plans and God laughs.”
Just as I wrote two weeks ago about pro golfer Scottie Scheffler’s perspective on life–on what’s truly important versus short-lived and materialistic–we must find that proper perspective on our lives. It’s far better to be content in our current station of life when we cherish the moment and make the most of it. As the saying goes, “The past is history, the future is unknown, but today is a gift–that’s why it’s called the present.”
If we can achieve that mindset, then we’ll find contentment no matter the season . . . and, like Sir Thomas More, we’ll be women and men for all seasons.
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“The nobility of England, my Lord, would have snored through the Sermon on the Mount, but you’ll labor like scholars over a bulldog’s pedigree.”
–Sir Thomas More (A Man for All Seasons)
Maybe you’ve experienced the recent unseasonably cool weather we’ve enjoyed in the greater Charlotte area. It got me thinking about the upcoming fall season. But I get it. I’ve been in Charlotte for forty-six years, and I know for a fact we’ve got a lot more summer to endure. Still, college football’s on the horizon!
Aren’t seasons great? We look forward to a new season–even winter, probably because of the holidays in November and December. Then, when we’re deep into a season, we often tire of it and wish it away, hoping for the next one. Seasons afford us a change, a new start–much like when January 1 rolls around: do-overs, resolutions, changes, plans.
Isn’t that a bit like life itself? There are seasons in our lives. Our years of education, ending with high school or college/post-graduate study, when we’re ready to move on and enter the work force; our years of work, and after so many years or decades, we anticipate the joys and freedom of retirement; then, upon reaching retirement, sadly, some folks look back and long for those days at work, when what we did helped to define who we were.
Although it’s healthier to be at peace with where we are, sometimes we never seem content with our current station in life. Or, as Sir Thomas More implied when he responded to The Duke of Norfolk, we worry about the inconsequential and ignore the important.
Ecclesiastes 3:1 states, “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven… (NIV).” I believe the author–perhaps the wise King Solomon–was telling us there is a time, place, and season for every situation in which we find ourselves.
Our job is to find contentment in our current season, rather than wish away where we are now so we can move on to the next, “sure-to-be-better” thing. Don’t we have to be careful not to wish our lives away?
So, how do we find contentment? Maybe through the satisfaction of doing an honest day’s work; or by the knowledge that a small, random act of kindness made a difference in someone’s life; or in the company of our close friends and family, and the pleasure such company confers on us.
A familiar phrase in the Old Testament is, “Be still and know that I am God (Psalm 46:10 NIV).” Can we quiet ourselves in the chaos of this world, reflect on the knowledge that we are in God’s hands, and understand his plans are vast and unknown to us? There’s an old saying: “We make plans and God laughs.”
Just as I wrote two weeks ago about pro golfer Scottie Scheffler’s perspective on life–on what’s truly important versus short-lived and materialistic–we must find that proper perspective on our lives. It’s far better to be content in our current station of life when we cherish the moment and make the most of it. As the saying goes, “The past is history, the future is unknown, but today is a gift–that’s why it’s called the present.”
If we can achieve that mindset, then we’ll find contentment no matter the season . . . and, like Sir Thomas More, we’ll be women and men for all seasons.
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I like the change of seasons here , even though I have often dreamed of living someplace where the temperature stayed in the 70’s. But even as I talk about the humidity and heat, I know it will be a short time and I will be complaining about the cold weather. But I know we are blessed to be in out retirement center –I had no idea how this was going to be, but I have found it to be the best decision we have ever made. I have found family and friends here and feel as if I have know them forever. This lifestyle works and I thank God for guiding us here.
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Great reminder to be thankful and content no matter our circumstances! I needed that here in South Louisiana’s heat and humidity!
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We are so blessed to share this season of life with our new community and friends. It’s truly a gift when “new” friends can feel like “old” friends so quickly! I loved this post, Tim. Thank you!
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Brings to mind something I shared with a old Navy shipmate who lost his father about a year ago.
“Old” is relative! I get tired a bit quicker, eat less and stay home more, but live fuller, love more and savor family time.
Live every moment like it is your last! It may well be. -
Tim,
I loved this “The past is history, the future is unknown, but today is a gift–that’s why it’s called the present.”
Keep writing and we will keep reading your post.
Tom Robinson -
I needed to hear that, as I once again go into my garden to work it. What a joy that I till CAN work. God is already in my tomorrow preparing my way. I will enjoy today.
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Of course, those of us who are in the ‘encore years’ have a better perspective on Tim’s blog today. I will only add the word that keeps me in total gratitude is acceptance! What gifts that we are here, having the highs, lows and much in between – it is life with all of its own seasons!
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I love the different seasons of life. Each one has been new and different. My favorite was when Paul retired and we had more time together. I still treasure that time. Every day is different….especially if you help make it so.
Thank you for a wonderful “thought for Tuesday”. Too late for making old friends. But a great time for making new. God is good. -
Since my retirement, I’ve been contemplating the state of contentment. Your message comes at a good time for me. With my driven and over achiever characteristics, I struggle with being content, even though I’m aware of and overwhelmed by my blessings. There just always seems to be a new goal that I “must” reach for. You’ve reminded me of the importance of the present. Thank you, Tim.
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I love reading Tuesday Thoughts😊
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Life truly is a journey of seasons. We enjoy certain ones more than others, but if was always 70 degrees and sunny, like S. CA where I grew up, we wouldn’t get to appreciate the diverse changes that each season brings. Like being at sea for 30 days where colors and smells are limited and monotonous, when you finally make landfall your deprived senses zing with euphoria. And if life was always easy, would we value those seasons of joy, those moments of contentment?
Thank you, Tim, for sharing this message about seasons.
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I like the change of seasons here , even though I have often dreamed of living someplace where the temperature stayed in the 70’s. But even as I talk about the humidity and heat, I know it will be a short time and I will be complaining about the cold weather. But I know we are blessed to be in out retirement center –I had no idea how this was going to be, but I have found it to be the best decision we have ever made. I have found family and friends here and feel as if I have know them forever. This lifestyle works and I thank God for guiding us here.
But Pam, a place where the temp’s always in the 70s would probably be massively over-populated! Sounds like you’re content where you are, regardless of the season!
Great reminder to be thankful and content no matter our circumstances! I needed that here in South Louisiana’s heat and humidity!
All that heat and humidity will be forgotten as soon as LSU tees up for the first kickoff, Sandy!
We are so blessed to share this season of life with our new community and friends. It’s truly a gift when “new” friends can feel like “old” friends so quickly! I loved this post, Tim. Thank you!
Of course, I understand and agree! Thank you, Pamm!
Brings to mind something I shared with a old Navy shipmate who lost his father about a year ago.
“Old” is relative! I get tired a bit quicker, eat less and stay home more, but live fuller, love more and savor family time.
Live every moment like it is your last! It may well be.
Great advice and even better attitude. I love the optimism, Bruce!
Tim,
I loved this “The past is history, the future is unknown, but today is a gift–that’s why it’s called the present.”
Keep writing and we will keep reading your post.
Tom Robinson
That’s so kind, Thomas. Thank you!
I needed to hear that, as I once again go into my garden to work it. What a joy that I till CAN work. God is already in my tomorrow preparing my way. I will enjoy today.
Great attitude, Leslie! Thanks!
Of course, those of us who are in the ‘encore years’ have a better perspective on Tim’s blog today. I will only add the word that keeps me in total gratitude is acceptance! What gifts that we are here, having the highs, lows and much in between – it is life with all of its own seasons!
I love this, Chris. Thank you!
I love the different seasons of life. Each one has been new and different. My favorite was when Paul retired and we had more time together. I still treasure that time. Every day is different….especially if you help make it so.
Thank you for a wonderful “thought for Tuesday”. Too late for making old friends. But a great time for making new. God is good.
Yes, He is, Jan. Thanks for your comments!
Since my retirement, I’ve been contemplating the state of contentment. Your message comes at a good time for me. With my driven and over achiever characteristics, I struggle with being content, even though I’m aware of and overwhelmed by my blessings. There just always seems to be a new goal that I “must” reach for. You’ve reminded me of the importance of the present. Thank you, Tim.
Well, if the post helped, that’s a win for both of us, Katherine! Thank you.
I love reading Tuesday Thoughts😊
Thank you, Angela. Great to hear from you!
Life truly is a journey of seasons. We enjoy certain ones more than others, but if was always 70 degrees and sunny, like S. CA where I grew up, we wouldn’t get to appreciate the diverse changes that each season brings. Like being at sea for 30 days where colors and smells are limited and monotonous, when you finally make landfall your deprived senses zing with euphoria. And if life was always easy, would we value those seasons of joy, those moments of contentment?
Thank you, Tim, for sharing this message about seasons.
Great points, Cheryl. Thanks so much!